A. Schulz

Dear Hilde. I cannot thank you enough for giving me the tools, knowledge and guidance to completely transform my family. The basic premise behind her coaching are a kinder, more gentle way of relating to your children and your partner. This has allowed me to be the type of mother and wife that I had always envisioned I would be: patient, loving, understanding, yet able to establish and maintain clear boundaries. Working together with my children and my husband to set agreements that include clear expectations has virtually eliminated the need for power struggles, whining, arguing, and tantrums. Empowering our family to practice self-calming techniques, employ a family team atmosphere, and conflict resolution techniques have instilled invaluable confidence within the whole family. Not only has Hilde’s program (in-home coaching and over the phone) positively affected our relationship with our children, but it has also improved communication with my husband and strengthened our bond. We have both learned to listen to each other, really listen!!! We have learned to validate each other’s feelings in a way that makes us both feel “heard and understood.” Once this has been accomplished, there is little need to continue belaboring our individual points and we can begin to work toward a solution. I cannot stop telling my friends and family about this program! I truly feel proud of the mother and wife that I have become, and I am amazed by the patience, sensitivity and dedication that my husband displays toward our children, and me :).
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